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We’re both 41. Everytime he puts condom he loses erection, so we do it without. He knew I wasn’t on pill, but came inside.He may’ve rationalized it knowing I want children. He does too. Cultural diffs are too great for us to have committed relatship. He is Moroccan/Spanish;I’m American. He’s chauvenistic; I expect respect. I think he’s irrational; he thinks I don’t live in the moment. The biggest problem now is I fear him, that he will take kid away and I’ll never see him again. This is a man with abundant resources and can fly the kid away in his helicopter or sail away on his boat. He even told me he had spent time looking for a surrogate mother, and wanted to raise a son in the rainforest of Brazil. I made it clear I wasn’t the one for that.I’ve seen goodness in him, but he has mother issues, so may not respect the value of mother/child bond. He just left country for 2 yrs., but his fave home is in U.S. near me. He’ll be back. I’d like to not tell him, but fear repercussions. Help!
Of course I know it’s half my fault. But we’ve been doing this a little while and he’s been careful; for safety’s sake, he usually didn’t come through intercourse, so I didn’t expect this from him. I thought with all his $ he’d be very careful. But he has so much he doesn’t care. He said things that should’ve tipped me off about his little plan, but I wasn’t catching on.

I feel like I have to make a decision in the next two months about whether to keep it from him (which I doubt can be done). Because if he knows I waited past a certain time, he would have a reason to resent me and not to trust me, and it may get us off to a bad start for which I’ll suffer later.
Hopefully my worrying is for nothing and he wouldn’t take the kid away. But something tells me the law is of no consequence here. None of his family live in the states.

Should I tell him?
It’s so hard to explain. I know I look like a dunce, but you can’t accurately judge me without knowing all the facts. Not on the pill because I was planning on getting pregnant by sperm donor in April. I haven’t been having sex in the past 2 mos. He was the last one a few months ago. He had left town as he’s working on a large stressful project, which, by the way, is fascinating to me. He came back into town for only four days. The guy’s gorgeous, I’m lonely. I trusted that he wouldn’t want me to get pregnant any more than I would want him to. Yeah, true, people lie. I believed him when he swore to having no STD’s, and it seems to have been true. Are all you people really so perfect as to never make a mistake? Give it time, you’ll fuck up too.

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Would that not be totally awesome?

She lived in Iran until she was 16, then moved to the United States with her family. By contract, she is not allowed to reveal how much she paid to go on the trip, but it’s around $20 Million dollars!

Now here’s the main part of my question? If someone who came over from a third world county has a spare 20 million… what boat did I miss exactly? I mean, imagine to be that well off… yeah, here’s an extra 20 million just lying around, I think I’ll buy a space ticket!

(Not that I begrudge her the chance to go. It would surely be the experience of a lifetime.)

I’m just wondering how you pull down that kind of cash. Is it real estate? Software? Oil? Best friends with Bush? Anyone know the secret?
Let’s not make this a Iranian vs. American thing… that completely misses the point of the question.

i live in citrus heights and go fishing in sailor bar i need to know what type of bait to use and how to set it up.